קדושת ציון גליון #30

דרישת ציון על טהרת הקודש ◆ דעת תורה בנושאי ארץ הקודש ת”ו

שלום רב לכל החברים,

אנו שמחים להגיש בפניכם את גליון חודש אדר של אגודת “קדושת ציון”, ותוך כך לציין 30 עלונים מאז הווסדה של האגודה, שזהו ללא ספק ציון דרך משמעותי, המעיד על עקביות ויכולת עמידה.

אנו מודים בפני בורא עולם על כך שזיכנו להגיע לגליון זה, כאשר בכל חודש הולכים ומתרבים הקוראים הנהנים מדברי האגודה בכל הנושאים שעל סדר היום של קהל יראי ה’ בתקופתנו.

בגליון זה תמצאו מאמרים מרתקים הן בענייני פורים והן בשאר עניינים העומדים על סדר היום, כמו גם המדורים הקבועים – המדור העוסק בספר ‘ויואל משה’, מדור ‘אמונת ציון’ המלבן את יסודות האמונה, מדור ‘שאלת ציון’ ועוד.

זכינו בחודשיים הקרובים להתחיל את תכנית לימוד התנ”ך השנתית, וברוך ה’ הדבר עושה פירות ופירי פירות. בגליון זה תמצאו את התכנית לחודש זה, וכן מבוא לספר שופטים, אותו מתחילים החודש.

כפי שהדגשנו כבר בעבר, אגודת “קדושת ציון” שואפת להרחיב את הפעילות אל מעבר להפצת העלון, והדבר מצריך אמצעים כספיים כמו גם כח אדם. ברוך ה’, מבצע שרי המאה הניב פירות ורבים משתתפים בחלוקת העלון, ואנו שמחים כל העת בהתרחבות מערך ההפצה.

הנושא הכספי מעיק עלינו יותר, שכן במצב הנוכחי לא רק שאין באפשרותנו להרחיב את הפעילות, אלא שאף את העלון במתכונתו הנוכחית בקושי רב אנחנו מצליחים להדפיס, במיוחד אחר שעלו מחירי הנייר פעמיים לאחרונה.

לאור זאת אנו מבקשים במיוחד שכל הנהנים מהעלון יתרמו במסגרת ‘זכר למחצית השקל’ לאגודה (המצורף בקובץ נפרד בדוא”ל זה), איש איש כפי אשר ידבנו לבו, והחותם על הוראת קבע הרי זה משובח.

ניתן לתרום באמצעות יצירת קשר במייל זה, בפקס או בטלפון של האגודה המובאים בעלון, בעמדות “קהילות” או “נדרים פלוס“.

בברכת פורים שמח לכל הקוראים ולכל בית ישראל,

אגודת “קדושת ציון”

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Not Every Hetter Should Be Recorded

The Dangers of Writing Hilchoth Lashon Hara

February 21, 2018

Speaking of contrasting Maimonides’s writings with those of early 20th century Aharonim, I was recently reminded of a sermon I delivered on Rosh Hashana a year and a half ago. When you read Maimonides’s summation of the laws of lashon hara, he connects the prohibitions thereof to the commandments to love fellow Jews, to love the unfortunate, and to rebuke transgressors, and to the prohibitions against bearing grudges and taking revenge. He defines the relevant terms, i.e., slander, gossip, libel, and innuendo, and concludes with homiletic teachings about the gravity of the sin. In total, the laws take up all of six paragraphs in the entire Mishneh Torah.

The Chafetz Chayim, however, wrote two books on the subject. After acknowledging the paucity of relevant material in the Mishneh Torah, he writes that his intent was to bring together all the scattered halachoth from the numerous sources in order to raise awareness of the issue, and hopefully to reduce the lashon hara spoken throughout the world. However, his plan may have backfired.

The notion that the existence of a full length book on a halachic subject will bring the masses to better observance of the matter is not entirely logical. Lashon hara is forbidden. Does the fact that it has many detailed halachoth matter to someone who may be deciding to speak it? Would a detailed work about the minutiae of the forbidden relations or bloodshed reduce the instances of both sins? Maimonides and the Vilna Gaon both considered it to be the gravest and most common sin, but they did not need to elaborate on it. The fact that there is much to be studied about a particular subject is, unfortunately, only provincial to those who really like to study.

But, most unfortunately, the Chafetz Chayim’s intellectual honesty may have been his undoing. If you look at the table of contents to common printed editions of the book Chafetz Chayim, you will see that the title of Principle 10 is, “Some details regarding lashon hara between a man and his fellow, that is, if someone stole from him and or cheated him or his friend, and similar cases, in what situation(s) would it be permissible to reveal this to people.” The book contains something Maimonides would never have included in his halachoth, hetterim, instances of permissibility, because lashon hara did not need a thorough halachic treatment. It should not be spoken, period. What this has wrought, and I have seen this a few times, is that people who have tendencies to want to meticulously keep the halacha and to meticulously study the halacha, end up finding excuses (or in their minds: justifications) for themselves to speak Lashon Hara!

That was then. Now I came across a perfectly relevant passage that drives home this point. Principle 8:8. (Easy to remember: Chafetz Chayim 8:8. In Hebrew, it would be ח”ח ח”ח!) There the Chafetz Chayim writes about the hetter, held of by some of the Rishonim and only under certain specific conditions, for someone to speak lashon hara about a ba’al mahloqeth,* in order to save the others from said ba’al mahloqeth‘s machinations. The source for this rule is at the beginning of the Yerushalmi Peah: Nathan instructed Bathsheba to inform David of Adonijah’s plot to take the throne. (Elsewhere, I have the heard that Moses’s warning the people to stay away from the tents of Korah, Dathan, and Abiram also teaches us this lesson.) Now, The Chafetz Chayim also notes that the codifiers, The Rif, the Rosh, and Maimonides, all omitted this hetter from their summations. In my humble opinion, there are two very good reasons for their doing so. 1. No one has the right to grant himself a hetter to speak Lashon Hara. If we find an instance where Nathan the prophet (or Moses for that matter) used such a hetter, we have to figure that they did so because they positively knew that that is what God wanted. If only all of us were prophets, but until then we cannot do like they do. 2. The Rif, the Rosh, and Maimonides may have realized the danger in recording hetterim to speak lashon hara. Once again, I know of a few who have used this hetter for themselves to speak lashon hara against others. Of course, they checked the conditions for themselves and justified their behavior in their own minds. Perhaps it would have been better had these and other hetterim not been included.

* In the strictest sense, a ba’al mahloqeth is someone who speaks and acts against those chosen by God to lead. Therefore Korah was a ba’al manhloqeth because he challenged Aaron’s being chosen for the priesthood, Dathan and Abiram challenged Moses’s authority as lawgiver, and Adonijah challenged God’s choosing Solomon to reign after David. In all these cases, the ba’al mahloqeth takes issue with that which is explicit from the words of the prophets. Ba’al mahloqeth is not an appellation for someone who is argumentative, nor for someone who disagrees with a particular rabbi.

Reprinted with permission from Avraham Ben Yehuda, here.

A Good Story About the Amshinover Rebbe

“They say” the Amshinover Rebbe remembers the “whole” Torah, (as it says of Chassidim Harishonim in Brachos 32b: וכי מאחר ששוהין תשע שעות ביום בתפלה תורתן היאך משתמרת ומלאכתן היאך נעשית אלא מתוך שחסידים הם תורתם משתמרת ומלאכתן מתברכת). I don’t know if that’s true, but he certainly knows plenty (see the comments interspersed within the Halachic work on marital intimacy, “Mishkan Yisrael” and his commentary on the Chassidic “Avodas Yisrael” I think).

You said there was a story. That’s why I clicked. Where is the story?

I was just about to tell it!

Anyway, I know a family where the parents one day asked the eldest son whether he wants to get married, and the son said no. You can imagine… Without investigating any further (and since they were going to consult with the Rebbe on other matters anyway), they brought up this frightening problem as well.

The Rebbe answered: He’s embarrassed.

Shulchan Aruch Even Ha’ezer 35:5:

יש מי שאומר שאם האב הרצה הדברים לפני הבן שהוא רוצה לקדש לו, ושתק הבן, והלך האב וקידשה לו, הרי זו מקודשת, דמחמת כיסופא דאב שתק ועשאו שליח לקדש לו. אבל באיניש אחריני, כהאי גוונא, הרי זו ספק מקודשת.

​Mitch McConnell Could Not Be More Correct

The man comes from the Republican wing of the monstrous bird of prey. He was never a Trump fan.

Here’s a brilliant excerpt from a pre-election interview:

“Do you think Donald Trump can win?”

“I do.”

“Are you gonna support him?”

“I am.”

“Does it cause you pause when you think about how divided this country is, and how he is causing such division? I mean, Republicans, in your party, are burning their voter registration cards. They’re saying, ‘Never Trump.'”

“Well, one thing I’m pretty calm about is that this is nowhere near the most divisive period in American history,” McConnell said. “But what protects us in this country against big mistakes being made is the structure, the Constitution, the institutions.

“No matter how unusual a personality may be who gets elected to office, there are constraints in this country. You don’t get to do anything you want to. So I’m very optimistic about America. I’m not depressed about the nature of the debate.”

From CBS News, here.

“If voting changed anything, they’d make it illegal.” Remember these words, and you’ll never sweat an election.