Mussar is Emasculating

Here’s a short story about Rabbi Yisrael Salanter:

One of Mussar’s foundation stories tells of a Yom Kippur when Rav Yisrael Salanter realized that his community needed a Mussar Movement. Rav Yisrael was away from home and didn’t have a machzor, a Yom Kippur prayer book. At one point he lost his place and needed to peer over another person’s shoulder. He got shoved in response to his efforts. How dare you interrupt my concentration! At that point Rav Yisrael realized that he couldn’t keep Mussar to himself and had to share it with the world. Rav Yisrael realized that when people value their own prayer more than helping someone else—and think that’s what is going to get them forgiven on Yom Kippur—Judaism got derailed somewhere.

Not that I believe and trust the Mussar Institute‘s storytellers, but, arguendo, this opens Rabbi Salanter’s Mussar movement to attack. I wasn’t there, but the way the story is presented both vindicates the Machzor owner’s conduct and shows the Mussar movement to be entirely unrelated, if not opposed, to Judaism. Whether or not the story even occurred, it is certainly revealing of Rabbi Salanter’s supposed followers and their perspective that they would see this story as kosher.

Please explain.

Concentration in prayer is part of the obligation of prayer. The Machzor belongs to its owner. Or are we socialists?

Did Rabbi Salanter fully explain his situation? Did he obtain prior permission? Perhaps the owner was impatient for any number of reasons? Some people are more readily perturbed than others. Was this particular man the best choice to shoulder-surf? And certainly, there is no obligation upon the owner to allow himself be disturbed as far as the Jewish obligation of “lending” goes.

You wish to allow others to read along with you? Fine. Doing so is neither folkway nor obligation. This should not need saying, but different people have different attitudes and personalities, and there is nothing wrong with that. The Gemara Bava Basra 145b says:

רבי יוחנן אמר כל ימי עני רעים זה רחמן וטוב לב משתה תמיד זה אכזרי

It should be obvious neither the ‘cruel’ man nor the ‘merciful’ one are being judged here.

Besides, what about judging Jews favorably? I will judge Rabbi Salanter favorably as regards Shulchan Aruch O.C. chapter 100:

תפלות של מועדות ושל ר”ה, צריך להסדיר תפלתו קודם שיתפלל, כדי שתהא שגורה בפיו: (הגה – וי”א דוקא כשמתפללים על פה, אבל כשמתפללין מתוך הסידור, מותר, דהא רואה מה שמתפלל וכן נוהגין), (ב”י בשם הר”ר מנוח):

How Can We Do Teshuvah? (or: How Can We Do Teshuvah?!)

I don’t want to simply re-link to previous content, but the essay posted recently is worth your time (even though it’s in Hebrew). It may be a bit long, but it addresses the common questions about how to do Teshuvah knowing in advance, based on past experience, we will “fail” to sustain any change. The answer is both intellectually satisfying and practical.

Yom Kippur is coming, ready or not…

Dear Anonymous: Please Contact Me!

I found a wonderfully brief polemic titled “הקדמה לספר ויואל משה החדש“. The pamphlet points out a tiny bit of the blatant lies and misquotes and factual ignorance and shoddy scholarship throughout the overrated Vayo’el Moshe, and does so in attractive fashion (following the lead of this work).

I would love to upload it here, but there is no contact information. If anyone has more details about the author/s, please use the Contact page to reach me.

P.S.,

There are positives in Vayo’el Moshe, too (as the aforementioned pamphlet agrees). Since Vayo’el Moshe’s author (one author, not many!) was forced at the time to choose between Appeal to Authority, or ‘clericalism’ (which had by then embraced Zionism) and Appeal to Tradition (of which a shallow and recent sampling rejected Zionism), Rabbi Teitelbaum chose the latter. (Since then his position has become the establishment one, with mild practical exceptions, such as voting. Thank God, there are also increasing anti-establishment currents by now.) He was unafraid of calling his numerous Jewish opponents heretics, Rabbis or not, which opens the gates for the intellectual honesty of similar, if lesser, accusations against other authorities. According to Hyehudi.org, anti-clericalism is a large part of the medicine modern Judaism requires so desperately. Also, there’s a tiny bit of anti-authoritarianism in there.

This doesn’t atone for the rest of his book, but it’s a start.

P.S., Here it is!