‘The Left Pushing and the Right Drawing Close’

Rabbi Moshe Feinstein’s wife is reported to have complained (presumably after his passing) the grandchildren would once bring flowers for Shabbos. Now they brought chumros (stringencies) for Shabbos, instead…

I say: Avoid anyone even potentially thinking a similar thought about you; Provide (the equivalent of) lots of flowers for shabbos.

(Not as a “chumra”!)